Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Henry Gosling with the following comment:
This is my Great-Great-Great Grandmother Hannah Harness-Oxtoby sister. I have just found her married name and her family. Hannah Oxtoby came to America with her family, and settled in Illinois first, then Iowa and ending up in Oakes, ND. Thank you for sending me the photo of the tombstone. What a great service you have for people are working on their family tree.